7 Facts About Prostate Cancer All Young Men Should Know - See more at: http://www.prostate.net/2016/prostate-cancer/7-facts-about-prostate-cancer-all-young-men-should-know/#sthash.gfhHfUeV.dpuf

I was 52 when diagnosed with Gleason 8, extra capsular, Stage IV, metastatic (to the lungs) prostate cancer.

Many men 55 and younger are under the mistaken belief that their risk of developing prostate cancer is practically nonexistent. However, although the vast majority of prostate cancer cases develop in men age 65 and older, more than 10 percent are diagnosed in men age 55 and younger.
All men, regardless of age, should be aware of what experts have learned about the risks of prostate cancer among younger men. This is especially true if there is a history of prostate cancer in your family.

Prostate cancer among younger men is rising

A University of Michigan Comprehensive Cancer Center study recently reported that the number of younger men being diagnosed with prostate cancer has increased sixfold over the past two decades. This finding was coupled with the discovery that men who develop this disease early have more genetic variants (genes such as BRCA1 or BRCA2, associated with breast cancer) than their older peers. Therefore, men who have a family history of prostate cancer are encouraged to seek genetic counseling or talk to their doctor about regular early monitoring.

High-risk younger men need to be screened early

Men who have a family history of prostate cancer have a two- to threefold increased risk of developing prostate cancer, and that chance rises even higher among young men who have several relatives with the disease. While men with an average risk of prostate cancer are advised by the American Cancer Society to be screened for the disease at age 50, men at high risk, including African Americans, should start at 45.

Prostate cancer can be more aggressive among younger men

It may seem unusual, but the younger you are when you develop prostate cancer, the greater your chances of dying of the disease. One major reason is that prostate cancer typically has no evident symptoms in its early stages. Therefore, when aggressive prostate cancer is discovered in younger men, it often has already progressed to a more advanced state and therefore is more challenging to treat. Another reason is that some types of prostate cancer appearing in younger men grow more rapidly and can be more deadly than those that are diagnosed in older men.

Early prostate cancer often does not have symptoms

A big reason why prostate cancer can sneak up on you is the lack of symptoms, especially during the early stages. As the disease progresses, symptoms can include urinary issues (e.g., difficulty urinating, urinary frequency and/or urgency), erectile dysfunction, and blood in the urine. However, since these can be symptoms of other conditions that commonly occur in men, such as an enlarged prostate, they can be overlooked. So when in doubt, check it out!

It’s never too early to help prevent prostate cancer

Prostate cancer doesn’t appear overnight; even aggressive forms of the disease develop over time. Therefore, it’s never too early to adopt a healthy lifestyle that can help reduce the risk of a diagnosis in the future. Based on scores of studies around lifestyle that can affect a man’s risk of and survival from prostate cancer, there is some evidence that the following factors have a role: diet high in red meat and/or high-fat dairy, high calcium intake, smoking, pesticide exposure, excess alcohol intake, being sedentary, and being overweight.

There are pros and cons of prostate cancer screening

First of all, the current prostate cancer screening methods are simple; a blood test for prostate-specific antigen (PSA) and a digital rectal exam to detect any unusual lumps or other abnormalities in the prostate. However, there’s considerable controversy surrounding these guidelines for prostate cancer screening, including the accuracy and reliability of PSA and how often screening is needed. New techniques to measure PSA are under investigation, but for the majority of men, the traditional methods will have to do for now. All men should have a frank discussion with their healthcare provider about the pros and cons of screening as it pertains to their unique situation.

Watchful waiting can be a wise choice for young men

Early onset prostate cancer can be aggressive, but in most cases it is not. That’s where watchful waiting comes in. Because treatment for prostate cancer, including radiation, hormone therapy, and chemotherapy, is associated with serious, life-altering side effects (e.g., erectile dysfunction, urinary incontinence, infertility), younger men who have been diagnosed often want to avoid treatment until it is necessary. Watchful waiting, in which men choose to monitor their disease with regular PSA and digital rectal exams (and sometimes a biopsy) while also following a healthy lifestyle, can keep men’s quality of life at its best for as long as possible. If necessary, multiparametric magnetic resonance imaging allows doctors to keep an eye on prostatic lesions when conducting a biopsy and to track any changes. Whether to choose watchful waiting is a decision men need to make with their healthcare providers and loved ones.
Prostate cancer is not just an “old man’s disease.” If you have a prostate, you are at risk for prostate cancer, so stay in tune with your body tuned to your body and see your doctor if you have any concerns or questions.

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Long Time No Update - But News To Be Had

It's hard to believe that it's been 15 months since I last posted.  So much has happened in my life that the blog took second (tenth?) place.  But I AM STILL ALIVE!

I am 15 months out from Lupron and about 17 months out from chemo.  The good news WAS that my PSA for many months dropped to unmeasurable and my testosterone rose to stratospheric levels so, in some ways I began to feel like me again.  Then over the last year my PSA began to creep back up.

On top of that, the chemo (docetaxel) caused horrific neuropathy in my hands/feet, arms and legs.  The pain is debilitating and requires 4 different meds to keep at bay.  In reading blogs from women who have had this drug, this sometimes persists for years or never goes away.

So I have traded extra length of life for lack of quality.  If I had it to do over again, I'd take neither drug and just ride out my life.  The only option I seem to have is cannabis oil which, living in the very "progressive state of  Texas" makes that difficult to pursue.

I plan to start writing again as I continue this journey to bring you up to date on the events of the last year as well as my plans for the future.  I appreciate any and all comments and forms of support.

3 Months Later and Post Chemo, Some Good News for a Change

My apologies for the long hiatus but in all honesty, as I went through the last few wretched chemo treatments, I simply needed one less reminder that this had become my life.  That said, there is some good news finally.  I had a CT scan of my chest, MRI of my prostate and a visit with the same physician at MD Anderson/Houston this past Thursday that I saw in April and here's what we know now:

• * My lungs appear to be cancer nodule free
• * My prostate and the associated tumor appear to have shrunk substantially
• * The tumor is no longer "extracapsular"
• * The tumor no longer appears to have seminal vesicle involvement

Considering the beating chemo and hormone deprivation has done to my body, this is indeed relieving news.  With MD Anderson doctor approval, I will take a "holiday" from Lupron.  He suggests I may be good for 9 months to a year or more before I might need to consider hormone deprivation again.  Additionally, I'm done with chemo.  In summary, this means that I can focus on healing my treatment ravaged body and mind.

And this is truly good news.

Chemo 3 and Lupron 2....and Then a Break

I hate to be so long in posting but that's just how it is when one is lost in the hazy world of chemo, hormone deprivation, pain and  aintianxiety meds.  My how the time flies.  So I'm sitting in a recliner at the oncologist's office with a burning IV in my arm with about an hour's worth of toxic chemicals left to course through my veins and then I have the unmitigated joy of another Lupron shot which will keep my testosterone non-existent for about another five months.

But then I'm fairly certain I have decided (against onc's recommendation) to skip Lupron for a few months.  I'll be done with chemo by late November and would be due for a Lupron shot January 1.  But I need a break.  Now.  So certainly by 2015 the need will be greater.  I need to feel like me and I need to feel normal again, if even for a little while.  I'll roll the dice

More later.  Stay strong folks.

A Largely Improved Me But The Hair Is Going!

I finally started to turn a corner in the last few days.  Starting Sunday I began to feel incrementally better and today felt (comparatively) marvelous!  Got out and ran errands, helped Derrell hang a door, got burgers for us from WiFiBurger.  Delish!  Additionally, a friend and coworker invited me to go to a taping of Austin City Limits at the ACL Moody theater located in the W Hotel downtown.  The only sour note is that after I showered to go out to the ACL taping, I was drying my hair with a towel and felt something all over my shoulders.  It quickly dawned on me that the loss of my hair due to chemotherapy was in process.

So, I'll be breaking out the clippers tomorrow and the Scott Needs Hats party happens Saturday.  Pics and post to follow the party.

Five days after Taxotere #1

I wish this could be a positive post, but I gotta be real here folks.  The chemo drug, Taxotere, has won today.  Despite six or seven hours of sleep, my fatigue level is 9 out of 10.  The runs have commenced with vengeance.   While no vomititus, food doesn’t look or sound good although I’ve managed to eat a meal and a cookie. Random, shooting pains hit various parts of my body on top of the general aches and pains that commenced after hormone therapy started some three months ago and the current pain med, Nucynta, is not touching them. I’m so clouded mentally….just slow.

Don’t know what else to say.

The Day After

 

I woke this AM about 8 to a good friend and coworker dropping off Torchy’s Tacos, one of Austin’s finest.  Not being hungry at that moment, I went directly back to sleep and didn’t move again until about 4  Jay, once again, showed up with grilled salmon, new potatoes and tortilla soup and a couple of wonderful additions: Burts Beeswax hand cream and some ultra chic lip balm all in a beautiful basket..  Derrell got home about 6:30pm and we’ve been chilling on the couch ever since.

 

I’m thankful that today all I feel is tired. No, exhausted.  Little nausea, no diarrhea.  But tired like I’ve never been tired before.   Sleep soon, will come easily.

So Taxotere scores one for fatigue and I score one in that I’m not dealing with any of the rest of the side effects.

But it is still early.

Chemo Starts Thursday

I need thoughts, prayers, food and love,

Please use the following link to access the Meal Train for Scott Miller.

https://mealtrain.com/dgvw4

and for any other way in which you can help, please contact me directly.  It's hard for me to ask for help, but I have to learn to do so.

Also, please come to the Hat Party:


Additionally, Derrell has planned a Hat Party on 6/14 for this soon to be bald guy. 

 

"Your friend and my boo, Scott L Miller, will soon lose his hair due to 18 weeks worth of chemo treatments. Rather than let it just fall out, Scott is going to shave his noggin and just own the chrome dome. As he only owns one hat, a baseball cap from the Hawaiian island of Lanai, he needs to stock up.

So please bring you choice of hat, be it ball cap or Stetson, Ascot or Beanie, Berets or Fedoras, Panama hats or Top hats, shoot even one of those frilly thing you see at the Kentucky Derby.
It is 7 3/8” hat size or a 23” head! Bring the hat, you’re favorite cocktail and any nibbles you’d like and let’s celebrate lack of hair!

This is a celebration of life as its lived! Please join

I'm Really Thinking I Should Make an Appointment Here (shhhhhh! Don't Tell My Oncologist!)

Today I Feel Better and Life, Lemons and Lemonade

Today I feel better.  Now better is a marginal thing.  I'm still fatigued and I have pain in my joints extremities but not to the degree I did yesterday.  Small things have to be appreciated.

Other things to be appreciated are a "Meal Train" that was started for me by the folks at Kinnser Software:

"As many of you already know, our dear friend, Scott L Miller, is experiencing a health issue that necessitates treatment over the next few months which will likely cause him to feel weak and unwell. If you want to help Scott through this period by dropping a meal off at his home, click this link to learn more and to sign up.

What is a meal train? There are times in our lives when friends and family ask, "What can I do to help out?" The answer is usually to help them with a meal. When many friends give a meal, this is a meal train.

If you are inclined, please sign up to deliver a meal to Scott on one of the days indicated. There may occasionally be errands and other needs Scott has (e.g., yard work, ride to the doctor's office), so please reach out to him directly if you're available to help in other ways.https://mealtrain.com/dgvw4

On behalf of Scott Miller, Thank You!"

Additionally, Derrell has planned a Hat Party on 6/14 for this soon to be bald guy. 

 

"Your friend and my boo, Scott L Miller, will soon lose his hair due to 18 weeks worth of chemo treatments. Rather than let it just fall out, Scott is going to shave his noggin and just own the chrome dome. As he only owns one hat, a baseball cap from the Hawaiian island of Lanai, he needs to stock up.

So please bring you choice of hat, be it ball cap or Stetson, Ascot or Beanie, Berets or Fedoras, Panama hats or Top hats, shoot even one of those frilly thing you see at the Kentucky Derby.
It is 7 3/8” hat size or a 23” head! Bring the hat, you’re favorite cocktail and any nibbles you’d like and let’s celebrate lack of hair!

This is a celebration of life as its lived! Please join."

 

I'm a lucky man,

How I Feel Today

The alarm went off at 6am but I was already starting to wake.  I could tell I didn't feel 100%. Feet and ankles/legs wobbly and sore......sore all the way down the stairs.  Went to a dentist appointment and just ached.  I have clean teeth though!  Drove to work and slowly got out of the car.  Still sore and wobbly despite the current regimen of Celebrex and Tramadol.

So that's how I feel today: wobbly, unfocused, achy, sore and slow.

Because People ask "What Can I Do?"

So many have asked me, "What can I do?" and they want to help.  Their desire to help is often impeded by my (and Derrell's) strange feeling we should do it all ourselves which is often possible, but getting less and less so, particularly after the 7/31/14 chemo start.

So here are the suggestion:

Supporting a Friend Who Has Cancer

If you have a friend who has recently been diagnosed with cancer, or is living with cancer, you may be wondering the best way to support him or her. Even though you want to help your friend through this difficult time, it can be hard to know what to say or do. While there are no set rules when it comes to supporting a friend who has cancer, this article will help you find ways to show your support, including ideas of what to say and how to provide practical help, as well as suggestions for thoughtful gifts.

Preparing yourself

 

A good first step is to learn more about the diagnosis beforehand. Your friend may not want to talk about the details for many reasons, including that it is physically and emotionally tiring to repeat the same information to different people. If possible, the person’s spouse or a mutual friend may be able to give you the basics. Write it down and repeat it back to them to be sure you’ve gotten the correct information. And if there’s information that is unknown or not shared, don’t push for more.

Before a visit, you may want to remember a time when you were really scared or felt really sick. Think about what it felt like. What did you want to talk about? How did you want to be treated? You may also want to prepare yourself for changes in your friend’s appearance. Fatigue, weight changes, and hair loss are common side effects of cancer and many treatments. Start your visit by saying “It’s good to see you” instead of commenting on any physical changes.

 

Helpful tips when supporting a friend

 

Although each person with cancer is different, here are some general suggestions for showing support:

• Ask permission—before visiting, before giving advice, before asking questions. And make it clear that saying no is perfectly okay.
• Make flexible plans that can be easily changed in case something comes up or your friend needs to cancel or reschedule.
• Don’t be afraid to make plans for the future—this gives your friend something positive to look forward to. Be careful not to come across as pushy or demanding though.
• Be humorous and fun when appropriate and when needed.
• Allow for sadness—do not ignore uncomfortable topics or feelings.
• Make time for a weekly check-in phone call. Let your friend know when you will be calling, and let your friend know that it is okay to not answer the phone.
• Offer to help with specific tasks, such as  preparing a meal or many of the ones listed below. Many people find it hard to ask for help, and your friend will likely appreciate the offer. However, if your friend declines an offer, don’t take it personally.
• Follow through on a commitment to help.
• Try not to let your friend’s condition get in the way of your friendship. As much as possible, treat him or her the same way you always have.
• Ask about interests, hobbies, and other topics not related to cancer—people going through treatment sometimes need a break from talking about the disease.
• If you aren't sure how to help, ask.

What to say

Here are some simple guidelines to use when talking with your friend.

Avoid saying

*I know just how you feel.

• How are you feeling? (multiple times).
• You need to talk.
• I know just what you should do.
• I feel helpless.
• I don't know how you manage.
• I’m sure you’ll be fine.
• Don’t worry.
• How much time do the doctors give you?
• How long do you have?
• Let me know what I can do. (Instead, offer specific ways you can help or other things you can provide if they need it.)

Do say

• I'm sorry this has happened to you.
• If you ever feel like talking, I am here to listen.
• What are you thinking of doing, and how can I help?
• I care about you.
• I’m thinking about you.
• I don’t know what to say. (It is better to be honest than to simply stop calling or visiting out of fear.

Practical help

 

Your assistance with daily tasks and chores is valuable help to a friend going through cancer treatment. Be creative with the help you offer. Remember that your friend’s needs may change, so be flexible in shifting your plans as needed. Here are some suggestions:

• Shop for groceries and pick up prescriptions.
• Help with chores around the house, such as getting the mail, taking care of pets, cleaning, doing laundry, taking care of plants and flowers, and taking out the garbage.
• Cook dinner and drop it off at your friend’s house.
• Schedule a night of takeout food and movies together.
• Take them to and sit with them during chemo
• Take them to Drs appointments when they can’t drive.
• Organize a phone chain and/or support team to check on your friend regularly.
• Help the write thank you notes
• Prepare a meal for the spose even if thee patient doesn’t want to eat.
• Call, email, or text regularly. Let your friend know it’s okay if he or she doesn’t reply.
• Offer to run errands, grocery shop, do laundry, clean how or mow the lawn.
• Find out when their chemo days are and the time and send them a small gift to the oncologists office not to be opened until they arrive.
• Offer to sort through and keep up with coordination of medical bill.
• Drive your friend to an appointment or a support group meeting. You can take notes during a doctor's appointment or keep your friend company during a treatment session.

• Offer to be the designated point person to email friends and deal with multiple calls.
• Go for a walk together.
• Think about the little things your friend enjoys and makes life “normal” for them. This could be helping to decorate for a holiday or weeding the garden. If there is something your friend would usually do, there are many ways you can make it a bit easier for him or her to do it.

Forming support teams

Organizing a support team is a great way to help a friend living with cancer. Some online communities offer tools to coordinate tasks among friends and caregivers, and shareable online calendars may help you organize activities among your group of friends and family. Or you can always make a paper calendar and write in the various activities and commitments by hand. Make sure your friend has access to the calendar so he or she knows what to expect and when.

Gift ideas

 

There may be times when you want to give your friend a gift. As with any gift, keep in mind the interests and hobbies of your friend and your relationship to that friend. For instance, a close friend may be able to give something really silly or unusual, whereas a neighbor or work colleague may want to stick with something more traditional.

While giving a gift is one way to show you care about someone, be careful not to give your friend anything that promotes a specific treatment or philosophy as a cure for cancer. People make decisions about their disease after a lot of thought so it’s important to respect their choices and their coping process, whether it is what you would do in the same situation or not. Keep gifts fun, interesting, serious, or light, depending on what your friend needs the most at that moment.

Some ideas include:

• Magazines, audio books, novels, books of short stories or poetry, or gift cards to purchase reading material
• CDs or gift cards for downloadable music
• DVDs of movies, TV shows, or documentaries
• Accessories (ties, hats), or beauty items
• Crosswords
• Note cards or a journal
• Arrange a mani/pedi together
• A video message from family and friends
• Gift certificates for massage, spa services, restaurants, or museum/art gallery passes
• Gift cards to grocery stores
• A housecleaning service
• Portable hobby supply kits (scrapbooking, drawing, needlepoint)
• Pajamas or robe
• Flowers or plants

Friendship makes a difference

 

Continuing friendships and regular activities after a cancer diagnosis is a great way to further the healing process. But don’t forget that friends also need encouragement and support after cancer treatment has finished. After treatment your friend will be trying to find his or her "new normal" in this next phase of life, and friendships are an important part of that. With these practical suggestions in mind, your friendship can make a lasting difference to a person living with cancer.

No Man Boobs But a Very Strange Tan

With the radiation treatments done to prevent gynecomastia, I now have a "tan" (radiation burn?) in rectangle over the center of each pec.  It will be sensitive to sunlight for at least a year, the skin will peel and the hair will fall out in that specific, red area, never to return. Radiation.......very strange stuff.  Glad this is all I'll ever do.

My Come to Jeus Meeting with the Oncologists or How I Went All Samuel L. Jackson on the Physician

For sometime now, I've felt like a medical record number at Texas Oncology.  Most of the techs, phlebotomists and nurses have somewhat of a cold detachment and my oncologist, while a nice friendly guy, has a tendency to skirt over answers or completely" ignore answers to questions I've had, particularly about side effects of Lupron and possible treatments for same.  For months, I was too devastated with my diagnosis to be very assertive in getting these answers.

This changed Thursday as Derrell and I descend upon Texas Oncology after the office had received a sharply worded letter from me the day before.

"On my last visit with you, I expressed concern over and, per your request, listed out the numerous side effects I’m experiencing from Lupron. Of these, two were addressed: ..........none of the other symptoms I mentioned were addressed."

 

"Additionally, there was initially no discussion of painful breast growth. I had to ask about this THREE times at different appointments over almost as many months before anyone discussed treatment for it…what gives with that?

 

 

" While I like you personally, in this life and death battle against prostate cancer, I need a practice that is going to do everything they can to explain treatments, offer assistance when negative side effects present and are vigilant in testing for side effects that might present. "

"...please advise what Texas Oncology is going to do to address these concerns.  Lupron has significantly diminished my quality of life. I am unsure that I can do an “indefinite course” of this controversial and often poisonous drug.  We need to discuss the advantages/disadvantages of intermittent therapy in addition to addressing the side effect concerns."

 

 

" Now I have a bill for $55.00 that I don’t owe.  As a cancer patient, I must now deal with not only trying to do my full time job, I must deal with becoming a knowledgeable expert on prostate cancer treatment, as well as becoming a patient responsibility payment exert.  I have to argue with numerous billers about incorrect billing.  It’s all quite stressful and time consuming. Must I now also add the stress of arguing with my oncologist office to my, at this point, uncertain lifespan"

 

 

Derrell and I had to convince the nurse that I wasn't there for a checkup and didn't need to be in an exam room.  She finally relented and we were placed in a conference room.  Dr. Kasper showed  and, to his credit, he listened to every concern I had, including all the side effect from Lupron and what could/couldn't be done about each. He also listened to me explain my experience with the staff and remarked, "Well I obviously need to speak with my staff." Finally, he addressed median life expectancy.  This was hard to listen to but something I needed to hear (see below).

 

Every day is a gift.  Oh and everyday presents opportunity to rain down Samuel L. on those who need it. 

 

 

 

 

Median Life Expectancy

More to come in a later post about my Come to Jesus meeting with my oncologist yesterday.  But he did provide some eye opening stats on Median Life Expectancy for men with Stage IV, metastasized (to a major organ i.e. lungs), aggressive, Gleason 8 prostate cancer.  They are as follows:

No Treatment – 12-18 months

Hormone

Therapy only – 32 months

 

HT and chemo – 49 months

 

This is why I’ve agreed to chemotherapy starting July 28, 2014.

Saying No To Man Boobs and Wishing I Could Say No To Fatigue

Friday at lunch was my third visit to the radiation oncologist to get my breasts zapped so as to prevent the most unwanted side effect of hormone "therapy, " painful enlargement of the breasts.  It's proven to be a strange, if uneventful, experience.  Five sessions with each lasting less that ten minutes where you lay shirtless and flat on a moving table and radiation techs center the beam right on your nipple on each side.  They flee the room and you can hear the machine turned on and zapping the tissue on each side for about 45 seconds. It seems this turns off (kills?) the estrogen receptors that both genders have in breast tissue, but are typically never active in males.. The only side effects I'm told I should experience are a reddening of the skin that was exposed in about 2 weeks, then all the hair in the "square" that was exposed will fall out and never grow back, which should look quite strange if I ever go shirtless at a pool or the lake again.  Doing my part to Keep Austin Weird I guess.

Fatigue continues to be an issue.  In the last week, during which I returned to work full time, I find that its all I can do to make it through my 8 hours at what is a relatively sedentary job.  Even with a solid 7 or 8 hours sleep, I'm still running on half my cylinders.  Yesterday, I managed to do a fairly good workout (elliptical, stretching, arms and chest) at the gym and grocery shopped.  When I got home, it was all I could do to put up the groceries.  Derrell woke me up and hour and a half later from napping when he came home from work on break.  I thought the nap would rejuvenate me, but I was wiped the rest of the day to the point where I decided, after showering and getting dressed, that I just didn't have the stamina to make it to a friend and coworker's long planned party.  The energy just wasn't there and I was in bed by 10pm.

This lack of energy comes despite upping the quality of my already pretty darned good diet.  Berry/kale smoothies, multiple prostate friendly supplements and vitamins, vegetable juices, salmon, increased amounts of organic veggies and fruits........I will say, my skin looks amazing. But the energy and stamina is virtually non-existent.  It's become apparent to me that a man in his 50s needs some degree of testosterone to function normally. The oncologist's plan is to keep me on Lupron indefinitely.  I'm not sure that's something I can do.  I've lost 13 pounds (mostly muscle), have little or no energy most days, severe tinnitus, a slight to moderate headache almost all the time, my extremities ache 80% of the time, I'm docile and weak and I just plain old feel like crap virtually all my waking hours.  This is not quality life.

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A Long Month Was June

Not having posted in a month, an update is in order.  Lupron slammed me hard in June. By the second and third weeks, the side effects (noted in last post) increased dramatically in intensity to the point where I couldn’t work.  Having been virtually bed ridden for 2 and a half weeks and lost 13 pounds, I’m only the last 4 days or so beginning to feel at all close to normal.  I had 2 visits to the oncologist office this week.  The first with my regular Onc, Dr. Kasper.  He allowed as how when you decimate the testosterone of a “younger” man (i.e. 50’s as opposed to 70’s and up), they tend to get slammed by it as they are usually producing normal levels of the hormone.  Indeed, my tests over the last few years had always shown that I was in the mid to high part of the “reference” or usual range for adult males (221-716 ng/ml).

 

But with Lupron, they’ve knocked my testosterone measurement to 12 ng/ml. That’s twelve as in 12 more than zero.

 

So I have almost no male hormone coursing through my body.  Almost none.  At all.

 

The good news is that the tumor has likely shrunk and the metastic cells in my lungs have likely been reduced or eliminated as its testosterone that feeds prostate cancer.  The bad news is I feel as weak, shakey, achy, not normal, depressed, hot flashey (yet easily cold at the same time) and just all around blech as I’ve ever felt in my life.  This has been nothing short of disabling.

 

To add to this, Lupron can cause about a fairly high percentage of men to develop gynecomastia, or enlargement of the breasts, that is accompanied by pain in the tissue.  The only preventative is mild radiation treatments to the breasts which seems to kill or at least turn off estrogen receptors in that tissue.  Not needing additional pain and realizing how further depressed I would be should my usually fairly well defined male chest become feminized, I decided to pursue that treatment yesterday.  The radiation oncologist D and I spoke with was well experienced, sincere and knowledgeable.  He was also the 5^th or 6^th physician to refer to the gravity of my “high volume” disease.  He’s only seen it once before back when only estrogen was used to deal with PC and that patient “just melted away.” 

 

His comments pushed me on my decision about pursuing chemo.  The regular Onc’s assistant had called about and mailed me a federal study on men with advanced PC taking chemo in the first four months of hormone treatments having and extended life span of approximately 1.5 years.  It’s 18 weeks of treatment, once every 3 weeks.  I can expect hair loss, nausea/vomiting and knocking down my white blood cell count for a few days after every treatment.  But there seems a strong likelihood it buys me a year plus.  Seeing as how I’d always envisioned myself as a cranky, mischievous old guy some day, I’m gonna buy the year plus, nausea et al be damned.

 

I’ve had relatives and friend send me info about consuming nutrient rich juices made from “15-20 lbs” of organic fruits and veggies daily.  While I get it and understand the theory behind it, the truth is, I can neither afford nor do I think I could down 20 pounds of organic fruits and veggies a day.  The best I can do (and have been doing) is to up my consumption of these daily with what fits in the budget and appetite.  I’ve often enjoyed mixed berry smoothies for well over a decade, so this is not new to me.

Finally, Derrell remains by my side in this fight.  A solid partner.  He’s thankfully had no further seizures since May 30 so it appears the medication he’s taking is working as intended with few side effects.  The love and support I feel from him, be it accompanying me to Dr’s visits or bringing me water and blueberries when I was in bed or simply holding my hand, is remarkable and comforting.  I may have never won Powerball or MegaMillions, but I won the relationship lottery somehow.

 

That’s all I know today.